We’re out to have a good time, we're out to meet each other, enjoy each other’s company, and have a great cocktail," says Barnes. “Everybody’s welcome and everybody's invited, as long as there's that respect for the fact that we're kind of in it together.
A survey of almost 3,000 small businesses conducted by tax prep company H&R Block found that 53% of Black business owners saw their revenue drop by half since the pandemic started, compared to 37% of White owners. Nobody’s Darling is beating the odds on two fronts, not just as a Black, LGBTQ+ bar opened during the pandemic but one that is also thriving. The latter category includes Harlem’s Lambda Lounge and Nobody’s Darling, both of which are Black-owned. Many of those businesses did not survive, several others launched crowdfunding campaigns to stay alive, and only a small handful have opened their doors for the first time. reported in our Queer Spaces Project, the ongoing COVID-19 pandemic has proven challenging for LGBTQ+ bars trying to survive periods of quarantine and lockdown, especially prior to the availability of vaccines. And also what we’re doing here - you don’t get an attorney and an auditor who come together and say ‘Oh, we want to open up a bar,’ let alone two Black women, but we just decided that we wanted to do it.”Īs them. When we’re talking about outcasts, you sometimes think about queer people being outcast.
“When I heard the name, because I’m from the South, I was sold.” Riddle told them. Riddle said the motif is both a nod to the bar’s name and her mom’s favorite term of endearment, as well as a reference to Riddle’s Alabama upbringing.
A few of the libations also carry the name “darling”: Darling Spritz, Carry Me Home Darling, and Darling Mule. All of the cocktails, Barnes and Riddle said, are based on their favorite drinks from over the years.